"As a clinical social worker and the parent of two adopted children with different levels of childhood trauma, I found myself nodding along as Aemis explains how early trauma is a real brain injury that impacts on people’s lives in all kinds of sometimes surprising and counterintuitive ways. This is a hopeful book by a loving and determined father that can help other parents of traumatized kids understand HOW that trauma has affected the child (and by extension, the whole family), and how we can help these children heal."

"From the first paragraph Scotty Aemis brought me along his personal journey in raising his adoptive children. Along the way he shares hard-won insights, and his heart. The result is a short, compelling book, full of great tips, tools, and resources to help any parent navigate the challenges of raising children, and especially those that have suffered from trauma."

"An insightful book looking at the effects that childhood trauma can have on adoptive parents and children. I learned how important it is to recognize that every child and family is unique, and there is no one-size-fits-all approach to adoption and parenting. However, with patience, love, and a commitment to ongoing learning and growth, adoptive parents can help guide their children through the challenges of trauma and into positive, safe relationships."

"This is a concise, well written book packed with information for those seeking to better understand childhood trauma. An excellent resource for adoptive parents, foster parents, teachers, social workers, physicians, pastors, and for all involved in the care and education of children, the book not only provides the background for understanding childhood trauma as a brain injury, but also suggests strategies to develop positive safe relationships that are key to consistent healing and the prevention of re-traumatization. The book includes numerous references and resources for further understanding, guidance and support."

"I have many years of experience dealing with juveniles in the court system. I always recognized these children were growing up in very difficult circumstances. But, until I read Scott's book I had no clue as to the causes , consequences and methods to overcome the issues facing these children. The scars trauma cause are lifelong and very deep. Knowing the root cause and possible manifestations can reduce the anxiety parents go into with these children. I wish this book was available when I was working in the court system and I hope it makes it into the hands of professionals and parents who deal with these special children. We owe it to them to be the best guides we can."